Sunday, March 28, 2010

Labors of Love

One of my students has just completed the construction of one thousand paper cranes. He's a soft-spoken boy with glasses who admits that he loved church basement Ping-Pong long before he loved anything else.

The birds, he tells me, are kept in freezer-sized Ziploc baggies in groups of one hundred. Last week, in his essay about art critic John Berger, he confessed that he'd created all one thousand birds for a girl. He didn't mention if he had ever given the birds to the girl, only mentioned that after a while, they weren't birds at all, they were something else entirely.

Then the weekend came, and Eva--very early Saturday--woke up with a fever. She was hot to the touch, and I was bleary-eyed, and I kept whispering to her that I was sorry--not for anything but for everything--and at least half a dozen times I went in to put my hand on her warm back, and I pressed a cold washcloth to the soles of her feet and measured out Motrin and sang about stars. Her fevers affect me like nothing else; somehow they contain every illness and playground injury, every paper-cut and heartbreak; they make me weepy and lonely, and every time I go in to press my wrist to her neck, I get more scared and more grateful.

When I was 20 or 22, I loved a boy who left me poems everywhere, tiny poems scrawled on torn-up pieces of paper. He left them in the medicine cabinet and the butter-dish, in my apron pockets and old notebooks. For years, I discovered them. They were beautiful in their way, and for a long time I wondered if I hadn't loved the boy quite enough or long enough, but by then he was gone--making t-shirts in Queens, someone said--and love, then, seemed to matter far less than time.

I think of my student and his thousand paper cranes, and I want to write him an email:

Dear B.--
Eva suffered a fever,
and I fell into an old & magical loop.

I've been thinking about your birds.
Please don't give them all away.
Keep at least one for yourself.

N.

When I was a girl--5 or 6--I found a seagull feather in the parking lot of the Sanitary Fish Market. I remember loving that feather, carrying it everywhere and sucking on its end. I'm not sure now, but probably, I thought that it could make me fly. Still, somehow, I knew that it was forbidden and I'd wait until I was alone before bringing it to my mouth. I think it was my first great privacy: the first thing I really kept from my mother, my first labor of love.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Winter Still

I am bone-tired, child--fractured--
split from the base of my neck
to the strange quiet place you have carved in me.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

What I Don't Know

I don't know if a vegan brownie and a handful of Ruffles and two tortillas microwaved with cheese equal dinner; or how you sleep so peacefully; or the names of very many constellations; or if I can remember, I mean really remember, what it was like to be a girl, to be eight or fifteen, to do back-bends and dress up like a cave woman and not be so practiced-practiced with my lip gloss and my hellos; and, frankly, I don't know what it means to be able to write and teach and think and be a mother and a wife and a friend, not all at once anyway; and so I do what I can, which right now is not very much; it's just this; (at least I'm not checking facebook!); at this moment, I am doing nothing but this (And nibbling crumbs and trying to remember and watching you dream on the video monitor).